Lately
I've read some articles where people explain that our society has it backwards:
instead of loving our kids so much, we should love our husbands more. After
all, you chose your husband, and he'll be around when the kids are gone, but
you didn't choose your kids. As people say, if we don't have a strong marriage,
the kids will suffer, so loving your husband more is good for your kids. (Try
to tell that to someone whose husband beats her and the kids. I'm sure the kids
in that family appreciate that the wife put her husband above them.) It's also
good to make sure your kids know they're not the center of the universe, as
bloggers these days are convinced that everyone else is doing with their kids. From
a Christian perspective, some people even say putting your husband above your
kids is the "biblical" way. I don't see it that way, and let me
explain why.
